anal advice for a first timer

[Serena69]

I am new to this site, and was looking for advice on how to take a cock anally for the first time. Mind you i think i am rather tight, as it is hard for me to get even one of my fingers all the way in. and i have small girlish hands. So i am really nervous about taking one inside me. But just thinking of it makes me mess my panties *giggle* I am currently seeking a clean guy to be my first. I've given oral before i was also nervous about that until i did it. Then i was just in love with the taste, i kept my mouth on it even after he was done *wink* I am hoping to like anal much the same looking for safe ways to open myself up for my first cock. Any and all suggestions would be appreciated.

[Aoi]

After a shower/bath, so it's nice and clean, you should really start looking into plugging and using a dildo on it. Start small with a little plug, little lube, and leave it in until your relax and loosen up a bit. After that, keep working your way up. I like to use a dildo that's a bit on the big side, but it's better to practice with that and be prepared for the real thing. Once you have a guy, hopefully your practice will help out, and you'll just need lube and hopefully him taking his time to "warm you up".

Practice practice, hehe.

[Serena69]

After a shower/bath, so it's nice and clean, you should really start looking into plugging and using a dildo on it. Start small with a little plug, little lube, and leave it in until your relax and loosen up a bit. After that, keep working your way up. I like to use a dildo that's a bit on the big side, but it's better to practice with that and be prepared for the real thing. Once you have a guy, hopefully your practice will help out, and you'll just need lube and hopefully him taking his time to "warm you up".

Practice practice, hehe.

I wanted to say thank you for your reply, wish i could have seen it earlier but with the site being down, there isn't any helping that. I'm so happy to see it back up as since my finding this place, i've found this site to be like a home away from home. Now on topic, i've purchased some plugs little to larger and a vibrator dildo once i can take that. At first even the little plug hurt a bit until it was all in however now i am almost ready for the dildo i can't wait. At this point i don't even want to remove the plug unless i'm gonna put something bigger in. *giggles* I can't believe how quickly this is making me more girlie, i've always maintained my male persona in my daily life and left this to be done safely in my own home. Now it's beginning to show in my attitude and mannerisms, luckily for me my girlfriend already knows all of this and understands my needs and is supportive or i would have lost her quick.

[Ami]

Never done it before but there are a few pointers I know of:
1)Use a very liberal amount of lube. The anus doesn't produce its own lubrication and can easily tear.
2) Never use whatever has entered the anus anywhere else before it has been cleaned and vice versa. You don't want to spread germs to the wrong places.
3) Don't take it in all at once. Start with your fingers, slowly working them in one at a time, making sure you're comfortable. If you take something huge all at once you're likely to tear something.
4) LUBE!!!!! Can't stress that enough!

[SissyboyTyler]

On top of everything posted above, just try to relax yourself. I found a hot bath helped a lot when I first started with anal play. Things go in much easier if you're not tense

[PinkJay]

All of the above is very important, but the most important thing I think is that you have a partner who knows to take it slow and who has experience in how to "warm you up" properly, as Aoi said.