advice on comming out

[sissyfox289]

So yeah for many years I'v contimplated comeing out. getting dressed up and going out for almost everything as in 24/7 but I'v never had the curage to truly do it. I relly do want to but I chiken out at the last minute. so i was hopeing to get some advice on if i shuld or shuldn't now a days yes it would be some what easy to tel I'm a guy in girls clothing wich is one thing i relly regret now sens befor I could get dressed up and not even my own mom could tell if i was a boy or girl but now that they can I even more scared I relly need some advice on if i shuld or not and if so what to exspect and what to prepare for, and what to wach for.

[lolly89]

Well you should if you feel that you are ready for it. Don't push yourself to do it if you aren't prepared. If you feel strongly that you want to then go for it! Start out small like just taking a drive in your girlie clothes, then maybe take a walk. When you feel comfortable with that then try out a few stores. I personally don't know what to expect. No one can really tell you that. You may encounter some unpleasantries but then again you may not. You'll never know unless you try!

[donnaTgyrl]

Hi sissyfox,
Your post is a little dated so please let us know if you did go out dressed. Part of figuring out what to do for the first few times is your environment. If you live in an apartment (like I used to), my very time was to walk out my door fully dressed and just walk to the common mail box and then right back to my apartment. My heart was pounding for sure. Then the next time was to drive to the local post office and mail something. Of course all these initial trips tool place like at 1AM or something when the chance of running into anyone was almost nil. Realize that you most likely will be read if you run into anyone in a lighted area and where there needs to be some interaction, such as talking. But that is ok as long as you accept that. There normally is nothing wrong with dressing as a female as long as you do not do it for something illegal. It took me several midnight trips before I started going out earlier and earlier. Eventually I made it to daylight out there dressed.

When out don't look around to see if anyone is looking at you. Just do whatever it is your intend to do, like mail a letter, shopping, etc. The more you look around the more you draw attention to yourself. Most folks don't really care as they have their own interests. So just act normal (pretend you are crossdressed in male clothing if that helps your mind) and go about your business. I remember my first time dressed in the mall. I caught glimpses of guys with girls who looked at me and their female partners told them to not look or punched them in the arm etc. Course I had on a short skirt and 4 inch heels. I can imagine their conversation "he: look at that chick (me) her: that's a guy dressed as a woman he: why don't you dress like that!" LOL.

Just enjoy yourself and go about your business dressed.

hugs, donna